Category Archive: Information Overload

Oops … Overload Strike!

My friend told me her mother’s memorial service was on June 23. Somehow  the month, “June,” didn’t register, but the 23rd did. Don and I were scheduled to leave for a grandson’s graduation in Idaho on the 24th. “I’m so glad we can attend before we leave.”
We drove an hour over the hill to Cupertino two Wednesdays ago and were surprised the church parking lot was so empty. Surely there would be more people present to celebrate the life of our dear friend, June McCuistion. Where were they? We saw only a few employees around, and in some trepidation walked up to the front doors of the church, which were closed but not locked. Opening them, we looked into a dark sanctuary!
Don and I looked at each other. Oh, my, did I get the wrong church? The wrong time?
Pulling out my phone, I was about to check back in my messages when a lady stepped out of an office.
“Are you looking for June M…” I finished her sentence. “McCuistion. Yes.”
“It’s June 23rd,” she responded. “You’re the second couple who’s been here today.”
Oh my. At least we weren’t alone in our mistake. We could have gotten annoyed with each other (or especially, Don with me!). I’d made several faux pas in the last three weeks, and I could have been down on myself. Well, I was … a little. But we managed to laugh at ourselves, and enjoy the time together as we drove back home. And we’ll return on June 23rd for the REAL service!
I’d had a lot on my mind … meetings with contractors, preparing for our trips to Mexico and Idaho, for social engagements, for upcoming guests coming our way, and for our planned Fall move. Overload! And then things, like the month of a service, slipped through the cracks of my overcrowded brain cells.
Have you done that? I’d love to hear some silly thing you did when you had too much going on.
We are delighted to be home again and to have no trips planned in the next months. As Don planted flowers and leveled a birdbath yesterday afternoon, I took him some iced tea. We sat together on our porch glider, enjoying the beauty and open space that are our view. Variegated shades of green in grass, trees and shrubs; multi-colored flowers; white fences; and the stillness spoke to us of peace and rest. I felt a great sense of contentment as my honey and I held hands and talked. Once again I’m reminded how critical it is in the midst of our demanding lives (yes, even as retirees) to stop and enjoy the beauty of God’s creation, to sit with those we love and enjoy each day as a gift. And I’m a better person for stopping to enjoy the moment.

“The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all they had done and taught. Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.” So they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place. (Mark 6:30-32)

If even Jesus’ disciples needed to stop and rest, to get away from the busyness of life, how much more do we need to “come apart” for times of refreshing.

May you be renewed with quietness in Jesus’ presence this week!

O Come Emmanuel

qtq80-rNB6zW‘Tis the week before Christmas … and we’re done! Both Don’s and my families celebrated together a week ago, due to travel schedules and availability of various family members. And yet, we’re far from finished. Advent is “the arrival of a notable person, thing, or event.” This, especially the four weeks preceding Christmas, is a season of anticipation.

Jesus-followers rejoice in the celebration of the coming of the Messiah, the Savior, the Prince of Peace. As we remember His first coming to earth, we rejoice that He is with us today. He is with and in His followers, guiding, directing, giving us hope–hope which we can then share with others who are hurting in a variety of ways.

The immediacy of television, social media, and the internet keep us constantly battered–earthquakes here, ongoing bombing and multiple orphaned children in Aleppo, car bombs in Istanbul. Not only do we hear news real-time; its immediacy makes us feel that we are involved in what is happening around the world. This feeling of intimacy with events is not real, but it does arouse fear in us. What’s next? When will another terrorist attack occur? Where will it all end?qtq80-L0GhQz

Oh, we need a Savior. Even with our Deliverer, we sometimes despair. The constant influx of negative news wears on our spirits. We can’t hide from it. Where today we have instant replays one after another, Jesus and His disciples walked from Jerusalem to Bethany, or Cana, or the Jordan River–walks that could take from a few hours to a couple of days. During those walks Jesus taught them along the way. And they could process the events of their day, which were also exceeding frightful.

I feel that in the busyness of American lives (some of our over-scheduling self-inflicted, no doubt) we have lost much of that time and opportunity to process. Instead, we move from crisis to crisis, bad news to more bad news.

But our Messiah, our Savior, has come!

“Come, thou long expected Jesus,
born to set thy people free;healing-glory
from our fears and sins release us,
let us find our rest in thee.
Israel’s strength and consolation,
hope of all the earth thou art;
dear desire of every nation,
joy of every longing heart.

Born thy people to deliver,
born a child and yet a King,
born to reign in us forever,
now thy gracious kingdom bring.
By thine own eternal spirit
rule in all our hearts alone;
by thine all sufficient merit,
raise us to thy glorious throne.”

          * Lyrics by Chris Tomlin

I often feel the need to be released from my fears and sins, to find rest in my God. So I will never be ‘done’ with Christmas. How about you?

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Information Overload

“Think fast, shop now: save 40-60% on bed and bath closeouts”

“Activation Alert – Respond Now”

“Blood drive … mortgage payment due … 21% off ends tonight … campaign highlights … you’ve been chosen … last day … last day …”

Information Overload

Information Overload

Do you, like me, ever feel overwhelmed by the information overload coming our way over the internet, telephone, and mail?

Pastor Rene reminded us this weekend that when the Pharisees were trying to goad Jesus into saying something for which they could condemn Him, they asked which was the most important commandment.

“The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” (Mark 12:29-31)

If I am to love God and my neighbor, I need to assess what drains my love. One of those drains is uncontrolled input overload. Rene said we live in such a media-saturated culture that we can actually suffer second-hand Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). We are faced on every side withroller coaster mayhem

  • requests for financial support – political, social, faith-based
  • images of horror in our world, far away and near
  • knowledge of the many kinds of evil around us; and
  • a myriad of advertisements, trying to get us to purchase more and more we don’t need, with money we may not have.

When I see an accident and can help, I am loving others. When faced with an unexpected interruption, I recognize it may be God’s direction to change my priorities that day. But there are things I can control. I’m making some changes so my energy for loving God and others can remain high.

  1. I’ve chosen to stop watching some television that isn’t helpful to my spirit
  2. I’ve just unsubscribed from a number of “good causes” because I can’t commit to all of them.
  3. I’ve unsubscribed from some shopping sites because I can waste a lot of time there. And
  4. I no longer read every email or every online post.

While I want to be aware of key world events, many of the above have nothing to do with the needs of others and more to do with stimulating my selfish desires, preying on guilt (“you should give to every worthy cause …”), or simply taking up time that could be more productive for the Kingdom. I don’t need to give mental real estate to everything that comes my way. A wise man encouraged us “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” (Proverbs 4:23, NIV)

Love God, Love Others

Love God, Love Others

Lord, continue your work in progress in me. Help me to focus on you, to see the pain and agony in our world through your eyes. I desire to love you first so that I can then love others with the love you have poured into me.